The all-or-nothing marriage: how the best marriages work

Preface : Panic in Evanston

Part one. Marriage today

Temperamental but thrilling

Part two. Historical perspective

The pragmatic marriage

From pragmatism to love

From love to self-expression

Part three. The all-or-nothing marriage

Personal fulfillment and marital commitment : the détente

Marriage at the summit

For richer or poorer

Part four. Toward stronger marriages

For better or worse

Lovehacking

Going all in

Recalibrating

The marital buffet.

Marriage today

Historical perspective

The all-or-nothing marriage

Toward stronger marriages.