Introduction : About these letters ; Some memories
some dreams ; The second most important decision ; Jetta trip
Convictions : A man whole without you ; Do you share a love for God? ; Priorities are best seen
not talked about ; Does he love God's Word? ; Is he glad to go to the house of the Lord? ; Don't marry out of desperation or pity
Character : The four seasons rule ; He's got to leave before he can cleave ; How important is your family's opinion? ; Is he a leader? ; Is he a true servant? ; A selfish mate is worse than no mate at all ; Don't assume he'll mature ; What's his self-control quotient? ; I'm glad he loves Jesus, but does he have a job? ; Don't marry a "crude" dude ; One
(no longer two) ; Does he have an "entitlement" attitude? ; What kind of dad will he be?
Considerations : I hope he knows how to have fun ; Frankly, I'm crazy enough without the bottle ; Do you both have similar passions? ; How important are common interests? ; Who are your counselors? ; Do you like him in public? ; Do you like being alone together?
Chemistry : Marital chemistry 101 ; Male/female differences and sexuality ; You asked about modesty ; Only big lures catch prize "fish" ; Where you "fish" does affect your "catch" ; Take a look before taking the hook ; What does God think about sex? ; Don't awaken love until its time ; What constitutes sexual purity? ; Four scriptural guidelines for physical involvement ; Four practical guidelines for physical involvement ; The fallacy of parallel physical involvement ; Sexual stimulation is for marriage e; Your mom says it's the best gift I gave her ; Emotional hooks in relationships ; How do I know if he has truly changed? ; How do you know the "real deal"? ; Marriage by choice, not obligation ; It's never too late to do the right thing
Concluding thoughts : Will he encourage your passions? ; This decision will affect the rest of your life! ; Then who will ever get married, dad? ; Finishing together.
