Stop trying to be confident and start unconditionally accepting yourself
Stop trying to be authentic and start speaking from the authority of your experience
Stop saying "I don't know what to do" and start admitting that you're just afraid to do the wrong thing
Stop trying to belong and start creating the spaces you want to belong to
Stop trying to control what other people think of you and start changing what you think of you
Stop trying to avoid anger and start standing up to abuse
Stop trying to get your life together and start enjoying unpredictability
Stop trying to avoid your pain and start wearing your pain as a badge of honor